Friday, September 07, 2007

Death

A life has only 1 end: Death.

This is such an ordinary yet EXTRAordinary word..i tink eveyone must haf think of it somehow. maybe thinking abt ur ownself or ur parents or ur friends..

perhaps u stare into space and suddenly think abt it.
perhaps u haf just watched a drama or movie or read a bk or listened to a music n u think abt it.
perhaps u see others' blog posts or news article n u think abt it.
perhaps u haf experienced it.in e sense dat ur relative or friend died,nt u of cos.or mb u did><

wat will happen when u die?wat will u think abt in e last moments b4 u die?wat would u want to do e most b4 u die?whr do u go after death?or is dere just nth after death?

shld i say life is fragile?or isit rly strong?some just died so suddenly.(illness or sudden or suicide)while some struggled to live even though they had only little time to live fer.

oh well,my parents' friend died of cancer on a morning.den dat night,my dad's another friend's mother died. its lyk wth?isit just too common?perhaps its just normal but we haven come to accept it.

After watching shoot3 ytd,i feel dat death is rly a complicated thing.it isnt fer old ppl only,it is fer everyone.of cos including u n me.or even new-born lives.it even involves some admin matters.

such as if u are in e hospital and u are dying: do u choose 安乐死 or struggle to preserve e last breath in ur life by continuing wif e treatment?maybe u don not want to be a burden to ur family n friends?maybe u just wanna live while u can n nv give up on ur life?well,its ur choice..

if u are dying:do u prefer to noe ur illness situation or just happy-go-lucky n just drop dead without noeing how u died?if it was me,i would want e truth.it matters how u take it n nt whether if u can take it.human-rights=we haf e right to noe.i wouldnt want to die knowing how i died.but of cos,e best way is just to die in ur old ripen yrs n just slp to death.e most peaceful n painless death..leaving e world in a blissful manner..

When will u die?
perhaps when u get old
perhaps when u are just mddle-aged
perhaps just a few yrs down e road
pehaps nex yr
perhaps dis yr
or perhaps just e next minute
well, life is damn unpredictable..

How will u die?
perhaps of illness
perhaps of suicide
perhaps of being murdered
perhaps of being knocked down by a car
perhaps of old-ness
perhaps of just not being to catch a breath

If u could choose when to die n how u die,wat would u choose?
but NO WAY,u cant choose.(suicidal nt included.dats against e natural law)
when u gotta leave,just leave.
when u still haf e chance to live,hang on n dont ever give up easily.
anyway,it all depends on e situation n ur way of thinking when dat day comes..

死亡是每个人都必须经过的一扇门,也是最后一扇。
重要的不是你生活在人间的长短,而是你经过那扇门此刻的心情感受
死亡并不可怕,可怕的是将要和身边最亲的家人朋友分开的不舍的感觉。。。

watever it is.death is nt abt urself.death is abt everyone who cares n love u..
so,cherish ur life..u will come to understand why..

Wednesday, September 05, 2007

881


hmm..watched <<881>> ytd..nt as bad as ppl said.perhaps im nt as picky..LOL..nt bad wat,at least still gt other movies except jack neo de to watch.some parts so freaking funny.hoho.yep. shall end here..zzz..ok.if u're damn bored in dis hol,go watch it=)
hols sux when theres exams waiting fer u after e hol +if u duno wat u studying in klas=more cham

Friday, August 31, 2007

<<這個世界>>

<<這個世界>>
詞曲: 蔡藍欽
其他版本: 王芷蕾 • 春天的臉 • 1987 •
鄭麗絲 • 收藏生活 • 1991 •
林俊逸 • 林俊逸專輯 • 1992 •
張信哲 • 心事 • 1993 •
孫建平音樂家庭 • 第2集 美麗的假期 • 1999 •
五月天 • Final Home 當我們混在一起 • 2005 •

在這個世界
有一點希望
有一點失望
我時常這麼想

在這個世界
有一點歡樂
有一點悲傷
誰也無法逃開

※我們的世界   
並不像你說的真有那麼壞   
你又何必感慨   
用你的關懷   
和所有的愛   
為這個世界   
添一些美麗色彩

now den i realise its an old song..haha.a simple song which beholds a great significance within..

everyone in 3h is so emo today -.- so...well,at least everyone is nt unfeeling..

Thursday, August 23, 2007

一步一脚印

wat i want to say is dat ppl say shld look at e efforts of others and nt just e outcome. example,even if e grade improves from F9 to D7,its still an effort made rite?
so pls understand dat we ppl nid to improve step by step n nt just suddenly from F9 to A1.
of cos there are cases lyk dis,but dat is only e minority who are damn hardworking + luck given.
when i feel dat i had done my best,我问心无愧..pls.我不是超人,我只是个还正在尝试力争上游的人。。
=)



恨是火 憤怒是鋼 我是沸騰的膽量

Thursday, August 16, 2007

war

the war has come to an end.but another war is arriving soon..

Saturday, August 04, 2007

happy bdaes

wuha! today is 4/8/07=) happy bdae to swy^^ lols.and to joyceng too whose bdae is tmr.sian.wanted to post photos de.but scared they bu shuang wif me haha.but i rly gt v nice de picts can =] oh ya.n happy birthday to everone whom i dint wish happy bdae to =P liddat easier=all at one shot-.=ps.

Saturday, July 28, 2007

songs survey..

lols.doing this thingy.quite interesting.but some rly no link..n all my songs some vvv old le cos no update-.=''and gt so much by mayday sia^^
Instructions:
1) Put your music player on shuffle
2) Press forward for each question Or just press next.
3) Use the song title asthe answer for the qns, even if it doesn't make sense. NO cheating!!
4) Tag 6 people to do this. Or 60 if you have tons of friends

1.How are you feeling today?
永远的永远 by 五月天
lols.feeling 永远??

2.Will you get far in life?
借问神明 by 五月天
go temple and ask the dieties =)haha

3.How do your friends see you?
I Love You 无望 by 五月天
diaoz.they love me 无望..sobs

4.Will you get married?
3-7-20-1 by 曹格
dun care 3-7-20-1 oso must get married?

5.What is your best friend's theme song?
你我是傻瓜 goong
lols.mean we are 傻瓜?

6.What is the story of your life?
你的微笑 by F.I.R
my life story is my smile-.-

7.What was my primary school like?
星座 by 王力宏
my pri sku has nth to do wif horoscopes,but it rocks anw=]

8.How can you get ahead in life?
编号89757 by 林俊杰
behave like a robot

9.What's the best thing about your friends?
除此之外 by 张智成
除此之外=other den this=?!

10.What song describes you?
外婆的澎湖湾 by 陈伟联
lols.i am a granny

11.Describe your grandparents
发现爱 by 林俊杰
lols.they find love

12.How is your life going?
走出黑暗的世界 by 陈伟联
gg bad.so i nid to get out of the darkness?

13.How does the world see you?
温柔的夜 by 石欣卉
the world sees me as a gentle nite..><

14.Will you have a happy life?
小心眼 by 梁静茹
dots..this shld mean no rite?

15.What does your friend really think of you?
老鼠爱大米 by 郭美美
they think im a mice who loves big rice (T.T)

16.Do people secretly lust after you?
第一天 by 孙燕姿
(掰不出 any nonsense le..)

17.How can I make myself happy?
我又初恋了 by 五月天
go 谈恋爱?=.=

18.What should you do with your life?
我们怎么了 by S.H.E
zz.i shld ask how are we le?

19.Will you ever have children?
我要快乐 by 张惠妹
lols.wan happiness dunwan children?crap..

20.What song will you play at your funeral?
温柔 by 五月天
diaoz..die gently,nt bad la

ok.who wan do den do.if free go do.bz den other times oso can^_<

Friday, July 27, 2007

lalala

According to joyce at the tagboard, i dint thks the 15 2h rockers.so THANK YOU everyone.lols. if nt ppl say i v bad.ok.thks to everyone who wished me^^woo~everyone of 2h rocks =)

Sunday, July 22, 2007

2h'06 gathering

woohoo.ytd+a few min of today was our 2h gathering.went to marina (same as last time,but more ppl)gt 23 ppl sia at 1st, but the rx just went off even without saying goodbye to everyone..so没义气sia..lols.nvm.den ltr saw jaslin n eeting after thier ndp rehearsal finished n they joined in^^ so 25 ppl in total !

[Junhong Daniel Wenjie Desmond Chiankai Sunshine Chengmun Jaslin Jenny Jiale Merton Chijie Eeting Guanglong Shuting Joyce Timothy Puyu Serena Sinta Juetong Tzyhuoy Ruixiang Chaoju Zihan]
yeah.n i chose some shots to be put up here,cos if u wanna see more.pls go to the official website of 2h which was updated by joyce.
e view from our eating place
cooking+eating
e fireworks.many ppl looking=.-
duno whr.but is escalator-.-
at marina mrt dere,everyone was damn tired le after the long walk n singing along the way..
slacking n sitting
standing ard
meditateO_o
buying slippers at carrefour cos jiale n sinta de slippers spoilt liao haha.. from this you can infer dat we are v high^^
yeah.goodbye slipper
as a GC member,i must promote recycle.pls save mother gaia ok? diaox~~
lol.our foots
closed when we reached.cos so late le.still rmb-ed last yr de dedication=)
hmm..our ah pek fer e day..cos he bring e bigbig umbrella.but gt qian tu sia.drum major lei haha
last of all, i would like to thks everybody.ur efforts r greatly appreciated..wat i can say is [[[2h'o6 rocks]]] n of cos its the ppl who rocks it !

Thursday, July 19, 2007

www.mayday-sia-thingys.blogspot

pls go to http://www.mayday-sia-thingys.blogspot.com/ to see mayday's thingys.cos dunwan make this blog with alot of mayday thingys haha.v luan4 liddat..or u can just click it at the link there^^

Saturday, July 14, 2007

mayday promo^^

yeah.went to J8 just now agn.e mayday thingy was lyk gt about 200+ ppl bah.lols.e gan jue nt bad,though nt too HIGH.actually duwan go ownself de,but scare ltr e event nt happening..so go myself>< v ji mo

gt a listening preview of wat 奔月thingy song (mayday n chen qi zhen).den gt 连线 wif mayday.玛莎picked up the phone.lols.cos they nt here mah.if they here, den must go v early liao.cos they nt here,i just walk a few rounds den go to the top of 8 oso lyk nt much ppl.they gt give out no. thingy,which is to redeem the door gift after e event ended.the door gift quite gd sia,inside gt e <<神的孩子在跳舞+自足>>卡拉ok disc n a mayday mousepad n a impact sweet. lols..

saw their concert scenes.quite gd,hope to go next time..^^ dats all folks.
-.-''updating 2 times in a day.so free liddat=hw undone

JJ Lin Jun Jie (林俊杰)- Killer/Killa, Sha Shou MV(杀手)censored

杀手MV

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FfIUB3Zzafg

roar.trying to post the video.always gt prob.zz.nvm. just click the link suan4 le..cos e video block my tagboard =(
dont worry,no nude or scary scenes in this mv.go see the movie.its 变态 but thrilling.

Thursday, July 12, 2007

mayday JUMP! the world

JUMP!The World离开地球表面
omg.MAYDAY pre-order thingy PROMO at J8

1. PREORDERS FOR UPCOMING ALBUM [includes 2 kinds]-
Economical Version - around S$14.90 for a CD and a chance to win a pair of tickets + hotel accomodation + air tickets to JUMP! Taipei!
Normal Version - around S$22.90/S$20.90 for a CD and a DVD. PLUS Preorders will receive a MEGA BIG POSTER [100cmx70cm] on the spot!
NOTE: CD includes 4 new songs [including li kai di qiu biao mian] and LIVE recordings from past JUMP! concerts. DVD includes footages from the concert and behind the scenes.
2. ACTIVITY AT TOP OF THE 8 @ Junction 8July 14th, 7pm, Top of the 8
Mayday will not be here personally but there are many activities:- Lucky draw for the JUMP! Taipei concert tickets etc.- Live CALL-IN with mayday!- Special 3-5min VCR [they did not reveal much about it - but it's supposed to be something exciting ]


3. MYPAPER PROMOTION - Ends June 26 Check this site for more information!http://www.mypaper.sg/promo/promo210607.html (lols,over le)


dis is how e poster looks lyk.but gt some some words there^^

Monday, July 02, 2007

youth day la

today is youth day^^ which is meant to be a holiday meant fer us poor kids..BUT it has become a hw day-.- in the end..lols.nvm.i haven started yet.

oh ya,the friends test so long le still gt ppl dint come do..u better do it if u pass by this blog,if nt..<3$!&%#*$%>LOLS.just random crapping..

btw,GST has gone up to 7%.but the GSS is still on,at least nt so cham yet la.so go buy all ur stuffs b4 it ends.dats all folks ><

Sunday, June 24, 2007

SINREN BIRTHDAY

OMG.Here i am agn.dedicating a post to SinRen-.-
Happy Birthday !! sian.so many ppl older den me liao..hahawatever la.nth to say.just wanted to wish u happiness on this 246 day=>>even no.lols..ur present de wish too ex,cant afford haha=]HAPPY BIRTHDAY XD
here i shall end my post wif a random picture ><..bo liao.
add-on: happy birthday to jenny too^^

Saturday, June 23, 2007

princess doggy=)

yo.lyk long time no update de gan jue..so here i am,trying to update b4 dat horrible sku reopens agn..lols.haiz.holidays are nt fun.no time to do everything i want..but kalley's doggy princess is so cute^^everyone was scared lyk siao at 1st and even climbed up the sofa and dont dare go near it.cos its so high and active and man haha.but in the end,everyone seems to lyk it cos its SO CUTE =]


>YEAH!

comecome

seems depressed.. (haha)

trying to stand

watever la.its just so adorable.lyk the old auntie(hoho)

LOLS.think dats it.update to make it nt so dull luh..

bye holidays,i gna miss it much =(

Tuesday, June 12, 2007

the personality test

yoyo.dont bother to read all.just see which subheading u wan read can le.cos damn long..gt this frm sinren there^^gt credit u leh

Portrait of an ISFP (Introverted Feeling with Extraverted Sensing)

ISFP(summary)
Quiet, serious, sensitive and kind. Do not like conflict, and not likely to do things which may generate conflict. Loyal and faithful. Extremely well-developed senses, and aesthetic appreciation for beauty. Not interested in leading or controlling others. Flexible and open-minded. Likely to be original and creative. Enjoy the present moment.



The Artist
As an ISFP, your primary mode of living is focused internally, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit into your value system. Your secondary mode is external, where you take things in via your five sense in a literal, concrete fashion.

ISFPs live in the world of sensation possibilities. They are keenly in tune with the way things look, taste, sound, feel and smell. They have a strong aesthetic appreciation for art, and are likely to be artists in some form, because they are unusually gifted at creating and composing things which will strongly affect the senses. They have a strong set of values, which they strive to consistently meet in their lives. They need to feel as if they're living their lives in accordance with what they feel is right, and will rebel against anything which conflicts with that goal. They're likely to choose jobs and careers which allow them the freedom of working towards the realization of their value-oriented personal goals.

ISFPs tend to be quiet and reserved, and difficult to get to know well. They hold back their ideas and opinions except from those who they are closest to. They are likely to be kind, gentle and sensitive in their dealings with others. They are interested in contributing to people's sense of well-being and happiness, and will put a great deal of effort and energy into tasks which they believe in.

ISFPs have a strong affinity for aesthetics and beauty. They're likely to be animal lovers, and to have a true appreciation for the beauties of nature. They're original and independent, and need to have personal space. They value people who take the time to understand the ISFP, and who support the ISFP in pursuing their goals in their own, unique way. People who don't know them well may see their unique way of life as a sign of carefree light-heartedness, but the ISFP actually takes life very seriously, constantly gathering specific information and shifting it through their value systems, in search for clarification and underlying meaning.

ISFPs are action-oriented individuals. They are "doers", and are usually uncomfortable with theorizing concepts and ideas, unless they see a practical application. They learn best in a "hands-on" environment, and consequently may become easily bored with the traditional teaching methods, which emphasize abstract thinking. They do not like impersonal analysis, and are uncomfortable with the idea of making decisions based strictly on logic. Their strong value systems demand that decisions are evaluated against their subjective beliefs, rather than against some objective rules or laws.

ISFPs are extremely perceptive and aware of others. They constantly gather specific information about people, and seek to discover what it means. They are usually penetratingly accurate in their perceptions of others.

ISFPs are warm and sympathetic. They genuinely care about people, and are strongly service-oriented in their desire to please. They have an unusually deep well of caring for those who are close to them, and are likely to show their love through actions, rather than words.

ISFPs have no desire to lead or control others, just as they have no desire to be led or controlled by others. They need space and time alone to evaluate the circumstances of their life against their value system, and are likely to respect other people's needs for the same.

The ISFP is likely to not give themself enough credit for the things which they do extremely well. Their strong value systems can lead them to be intensely perfectionist, and cause them to judge themselves with unneccesary harshness.

The ISFP has many special gifts for the world, especially in the areas of creating artistic sensation, and selflessly serving others. Life is not likely to be extremely easy for the ISFP, because they take life so seriously, but they have the tools to make their lives and the lives of those close to them richly rewarding experiences.


Careers for ISFP Personality Types
Whether you're a young adult trying to find your place in the world, or a not-so-young adult trying to find out if you're moving along the right path, it's important to understand yourself and the personality traits which will impact your likeliness to succeed or fail at various careers. It's equally important to understand what is really important to you. When armed with an understanding of your strengths and weaknesses, and an awareness of what you truly value, you are in an excellent position to pick a career which you will find rewarding.


ISFPs generally have the following traits:
Keen awareness of their environment
Live in the present moment
Enjoy a slower pace - they like to take time to savor the present moment
Dislike dealing with theory or abstract thought, unless they see a practical application
Faithful and loyal to people and ideas which are important to them
Individualistic, having no desire to lead or follow
Take things seriously, although they frequently appear not to
Special bond with children and animals
Quiet and reserved, except with people they know extremely well
Trusting, sensitive, and kind
Service-oriented; they're driven to help others
Extremely well-developed appreciation for aesthetic beauty
Likely to be original and unconventional
Learn best with hands-on training
Hate being confined to strict schedules and regimens
Need space and freedom to do things their own way
Dislike mundane, routine tasks, but will perform them if necessary


The ISFP is a very special individual who needs to have a career which is more than a job. The middle of the road is not likely to be a place where they will be fulfilled and happy. They need to have a career which is consistent with their strong core of inner values. Since they prefer to live in the current moment, and take the time to savor it, they do not do well with some of the more fast-paced corporate environments. They need a great deal of space and freedom if they are going to function in their natural realm of acute sensory awareness. If they give free reign to their natural abilities, they may find a wonderful artist within themselves. Almost every major artist in the world has been an ISFP. Since the ISFP is so acutely aware of people's feelings and reactions, and is driven by their inner values to help people, the ISFP is also a natural counselor and teacher.
The following list of professions is built on our impressions of careers which would be especially suitable for an ISFP. It is meant to be a starting place, rather than an exhaustive list. There are no guarantees that any or all of the careers listed here would be appropriate for you, or that your best career match is among those listed.

Possible Career Paths for the ISFP:
Artist
Musician / Composer
Designer
Child Care / Early Childhood Development
Social Worker / Counselor
Teacher
Psychologist
Veterinarian
Forest Ranger
Pediatrician



ISFP Relationships
ISFPs are warmhearted, gentle people who take their commitments seriously, and seek lifelong relationships. They are very private people, who keep their true feelings and opinions reserved or hidden from others. This may cause them to constantly defer to their mates in their intimate relationships, which may cause problems if their mates are not extremely aware of the ISFP's feelings. Some ISFPs who are in the habit of not expressing their needs and feelings find themselves in situations throughout their life where they feel overshadowed, overlooked, or even "tread upon" by others. Highly practical and cynical by nature, these feelings may cause the ISFP to become bitter, and to either give up on their relationships, or to start using their relationships for their own personal gain. Although this problem is observed sometimes in the ISFP type, it does not seem to be present in those ISFPs who consistently express their feelings to those closest to them. These ISFPs have a very positive, warm outlook on life and love, and are not as likely to find themselves in relationships where they are taken for granted or taken advantage of. ISFPs go to great lengths to please their partners. They're very loyal and supportive, with a deep capacity for love. They detest conflict and discord, and highly value being seen and understood for who they are. They need space to live their lives in their own unique way, and will respect other's need for space.


ISFP Strengths
Warm, friendly and affirming by nature
Usually optimistic
Good listeners
Good at dealing with practical day-to-day concerns
Flexible and laid-back, usually willing to defer to their mates
Their love of aesthetic beauty and appreciation for function makes them likely to have attractive, functional homes
Take their commitments seriously, and seek lifelong relationships
Likely to value and respect other's personal space
Likely to enjoy showing their affection through acts and deeds
Sensuous and earthy


ISFP Weaknesses
Not good at long-range financial (or other) planning
Extreme dislike of conflict and criticism
Focused on enjoying the present moment, they may appear lazy or slow-moving at times
Need to have their own space, and dislike having it invaded
May be slow to show their affection with words
Tendency to hold back their thoughts and feelings, unless drawn out
May become overly cynical and practical


ISFPs as Lovers
"To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive - to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before." -- Rollo May

ISFPs are warm and giving people, who have a depth of emotion and caring which is not often obvious to others, except those who know them extremely well. They are usually intense people, who experience their emotions on an intense level. Although they may appear to be light-hearted, they are in fact extremely serious, and take their relationships seriously. Unlike other SP types, people with the ISFP type desire and seek lifelong, committed relationships.

ISFPs may have a problem with communication. With Introverted Feeling dominating their personality, they are more vulnerable then most to being hurt. Perhaps because of this, they tend to hold back part of themselves from others, and do not always say what they think or feel. This is especially true during conflict situations, which the ISFP abhors more than anything in the world. Confrontations and arguments are very difficult for the ISFP to deal with. They feel personally threatened in these situations. If the ISFP falls into the habit of not communicating their feelings with their partner, this could cause serious problems in the relationship over the long haul.

Sexually, the ISFP approaches intimacy with complete attention, seriousness and depth. They experience lovemaking through their senses, and welcome the chance to interact with their mate at this level. They are not likely to express their feelings verbally, believing that actions speak louder than words.

ISFPs need positive affirmation to be happy and feel good about themselves. They need to be praised, although they are usually uncomfortable with "gushy" praise. The greatest gift their partners can give them is the expression of their affection and admiration.

Although two well-developed individuals of any type can enjoy a healthy relationship, the ISFP's natural partner is the
ESFJ, or the ENFJ. ISFP's dominant function of Introverted Feeling is best matched with a partner whose dominant function is Extraverted Feeling. The ISFP/ESFJ combination is ideal, because the types share Sensing as their way of perceiving the world, but ISFP/ENFJ is also a good match.


ISFPs as Parents
"You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth...Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;For even as He loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable." -- Kahlil Gibran

ISFPs enjoy their parenting role, and take great pride and comfort in their children. Most have a special affinity with babies and young children, and form bonds with their children when they are very young. They are very laid-back parents, and are not likely to have highly defined expectations of their children. They will gently guide their behavior, and suggest a particular direction, but their own respect of the individual psyche will cause them to be quite easy-going and non-demanding as parents. The ISFP is likely to treat their children as individuals, and encourage them to have their own role in the family.

ISFPs love to have fun, and live in the current moment. All ISFPs have a bit of little kid inside themselves, and they love to play games alongside their children. They're special affinity towards nature and animals makes them likely to lead their children in fun outdoors activities.

ISFPs are not likely to provide a very structured environment for their children. They are also likely to have a problem with disciplining or punishing their kids. The gentle manner and kind heart of the
ISFP makes it hard for them to make others unhappy - especially their own children. However, structure and discipline are important for growing children. If the other parent encourages and promotes structure, and is able to administer discipline when necessary, the parent combination may work very well without there being an obvious lack of structure. However, if the other parent is also not strong with structure or discipline, this is an area which needs to have special attention. Growing children do not have the experience to decide on their own the difference between Right and Wrong. They need to have barriers set down in a tangible way, to help them decide.


ISFPs like to show their love in deeds rather than words, which is manifested in their doing a lot for their children. They may lavish them with gifts on Christmas day, or go out of their way to do special things for them.

The ISFP is a service-oriented person, who defines their personal worth in some part by how happy they make others. This is typical of people with the Feeling preference. The special potential problem that ISFPs face is their service-oriented attitude combined with their habit of not expressing their own needs and feelings. This combination causes some ISFPs to get taken for granted. If this happens frequently to an ISFP, they may become bitter and angry. They think of themselves as victims, and may erect barriers to keep out those who have hurt them. This may be a serious problem if the ISFP parent feels that their children are taking them for granted. The best defense against such a situation occuring is for the ISFP to get into the habit of verbalizing and communicating their needs.

ISFP parents will be loyal, dedicated and self-sacrificing to their children until they leave home. When the kids have left the nest, the ISFP will enjoy their time alone to do things for themself. If the
ISFP has not allowed themselves to become victims or victimizers in their life, they will be very good parents, and will be remembered fondly and affectionately by their children.


ISFPs as Friends
ISFPs are able to get along with most of the other personality types, although they tend to be reserved around those they don't know well. They will enjoy spending time with others who share their interests, and who understand and accept the ISFP for who they are. They greatly value their space and autonomy, and appreciate other's respect for that.

The ISFP is not likely to have much patience or tolerance for those who are strongly Judging.
ISFPs celebrate their own uniqueness, as well as everybody else's, and don't appreciate being judged harshly for their differences.

In work settings, the ISFP is likely to get along with most everyone, unless someone inhabits their space too much, in which case sparks may fly. Generally, the ISFP is kind-hearted and generous with those they care about, and makes a true-blue friend.


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